Sexual Polarity Assessment

Sexual Polarity Assessment

Here’s a Sexual Polarity Quiz inspired by David Deida’s teachings on masculine and feminine essences. This quiz will help individuals identify where their natural sexual polarity lies—whether it’s more masculine, feminine, or balanced.

This quiz is designed to offer a general gage of your tendency to express masculine or feminine energies throughout a range of scenarios in daily life.

For each scenario you are given a spectrum of two polar opposite responses. Select how strongly, mostly, slightly, or neutrally you would most often tend to interact with each situation in relation to your partner. Enjoy.

Going on a Date
On a romantic date, would you prefer to:*

A) take initiative and generate a single suggestion including activity, location, date and timeA) suggest a few different options and let the other person decide or initiate more often, but also let them lead sometimesC) collaboratively make a 50/50 decision about the date.D) allow the other person to make suggestions more often so you can respond, but you prefer to take the lead about 25% of the time.E) have them take initiative and make a single suggestion so you respond after sensing into it.

Driving
When driving in a car with your romantic partner, would you prefer to be the one who *

A) orients the direction and drives you both almost all the timeB) tends to drive most of the time but your partner often does not trust your driving or sense of direction and tries to direct youC) takes the lead as the driver around 50% of the time and likes to sit back relax and be the passenger the other half of the timeD) is the passenger but sometimes has difficulty relaxing and trusting your partner to drive.E) is relaxing in the passenger seat, creating the mood while fully trusting and allowing your partner to drive.

Public Approach
Imagine that you are single, see someone in public and there seems to be a clear mutual attraction. Are you more likely to:*

A) be the one who confidently approaches, takes the lead and initiates conversationB) be hesitant and may go up to the other person and see if a good conversation happensC) not notice attraction or if you do not show it and stay more neutral, waiting for their initiative to respond.D) feel attraction but not give clear signals of your desire, while waiting for them to approach and initiate.E) use smiling with extended eye contact to signal the other person to approach you, letting them take the lead.

Movies
When watching movies, do you prefer:*

A) only movies about war, freedom, and overcoming challenges and do not like drama, love or romance movies.B) mostly movies about war, freedom, and overcoming challenges, but will also occasionally movies about drama, love and romance.C) equally movies about war, freedom, and overcoming challenges just as much as movies about drama, love and romance.D) more so movies about drama, love and romance, but also occasionally movies about war, freedom, and overcoming challenges.E) only enjoy movies about drama, love and romance, and don’t like movies about war, freedom, and overcoming challenges.

Dancing
If you and your romantic partner are partner dancing, would you rather be the one who is*

A) almost always initiating, reading your partner and leading both of you in the danceB) one who is leading, but sometimes let them take the lead.C) prefer when there is no clear leading or we are both alternating.D) more so responding and following, but sometimes you have difficulty trusting and surrendering.E) almost always softening, responding and following my partner’s lead.

Trusted or Trusting
Which side of trust would you prefer to be on:*

A) to be the trusted leader most if the time, that is attuned to what is best for you and your partner, while also open to feedback, accountability and continual improvementB) to be the trusted leader, but you get controlling or collapse (into not good don’t like it) when questioned or challengedC) where everything is 50/50 in our relationship.D) to choose a competent trustable leader who you can be led by and surrender to in romance, while collaboratively communicating about other important areas of life together, as an equal and polarizing partner.E) to be led and dominated by a leader who takes care of you and directs every aspect of your life.

Free or Filled
Would you prefer to feel full (of beauty, love and connection) or free and accomplished (after successful completing a task/mission)*

A) completely free and successfully accomplishedB) mostly successful and accomplished while also full of love and beauty.C) equally full of beauty and successfully accomplished.D) mostly full of love, connection and beauty, while also successful and accomplished.E) 100% focused on feeling full of love, connection and beauty.

Protective or Nurturing
Would you rather your romantic partner be protective or nurturing (assuming that they are already considerate and open-hearted)*

A) very nurturing and you can be more protective.B) mostly nurturing, but with a strong ability to physically protect.C) equally nurturing and physically protective.D) mostly protective but also very nurturing.E) solidly protective and you can be more nurturing.

Integrity or Caring
Would you rather your romantic partner be clear and in integity or caring and flowing (assuming that they are already considerate and open-hearted)?*

A) caring and flowing, with the freedom to be spontaneous and have shifting moodsB) mostly caring and flowing, but also very clear and integrous.C) equally as clear and integrous as flowing and caring.D) mostly clear and in integrity but also very caring and flowing.E) clear in communication, provide clear direction and live with integrity in doing what they say they will do so you can be more caring and flowing.

Competent or Trusting
Would it be sexier to hear your partner say to you:*

A) "I got this" and "I will handle it for us."C) equal amounts “I got this” and "I feel so open to you".E) "I trust you" and "I feel so open to you"

Strong or Radiant
Are you more attracted to a romantic partner who is physically stronger or more radiantly beautiful *

A) radiantly beautiful and it would be a turn-off if they were physically stronger, but healthy and toned would great.B) radiantly beautiful and they are ideally also physically strong.C) doesn’t really matter or you prefer someone with about the same physical strength as you.D) physically stronger as well as really beautiful.E) physically stronger and it would be a turn-off if they were beautiful, but handsome would great.

Orgasm
After sexual orgasm, in addition to the bliss, relaxation and connection, would you prefer to feel*

A) mutli-orgasmic, free AFAB) freedom and empty releaseC) both beauty and emptiness equally.E) full of love and radiant beauty.

In the Bedroom
When engaging sexually in the bedroom with your partner, do you prefer to*

A) lead and be more dominant almost all the time — even when your partner initiates, you can roll with it and still take the lead ;)B) lead in the bedroom most of the time, while also being receptive more than 25% of the time.C) switch equally in both leading and being receptive.D) be receptive most often, while also being dominant more than 25% of the time.E) be led, be more receptive and responsive almost all the time.

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